DEAR GUYS, THIS IS THE ANSWER TO YOUR CONFUSION WHY GIRLS DON'T WANT TO DEKETIN GIRLS FIRST

According to many guys, girls are the most confusing creatures in the world, don't you think? Maybe you as a guy don't know when to move and approach the girl because the girl is unpredictable and doesn't want to approach you first. Is not it?

If the short answer is, girls don't want to approach boys first because boys are supposed to be close, because girls are looking for their natures, not looking for them. But if you are a guy yourself, do you know why girls don't want to approach you first even though they have a crush?

Because if you shoot first you are thought to be aggressive

It has become a social law inherent in girls. Girls don't want to approach boys first for fear of being considered aggressive and shameless. That's why lazy girls go first even though they actually have a crush. So, don't blame him, but don't blame your environment either.

Well, girls shouldn't have to go first

It should be you as a man who went first. Yes, don't you have to be chased by girls? Show him that you are gentle enough to finally win his heart. Just realize that girls are naturally being chased, not chasing. If not like that, where are the girls who sell dearly?

Afraid of being rejected, maybe?

Can be. He actually has a crush on you, but you don't give me a sign that you have a crush on him. So, after a few chats and you didn't seem to be giving a good signal, he slowly backed off, thinking you were rejecting him. Naturally, if you are a little reluctant to approach you, just say hello first. Girls are afraid of rejection too, bro.

Some guys don't like girls who are "taller" in some ways

It's not entirely girls' fault that they don't want to go first in this matter. Try to introspect yourself first, maybe something is wrong? Some of the girls might think that you didn't approach them first because you were giving a signal that you didn't like her who was "higher" than you in some way, for example work or academic achievement. Those of you who unconsciously have done that, in fact it makes him slow down, and you just wonder what is wrong with you ...

Don't want to waste time

Because maybe you don't give code either, girls think you don't like her. As a result, the girl doesn't want to waste her time thinking about it, let alone approach you first. Guys who have been thinking badly and wondering why girls don't want to go first, should be able to think and introspect themselves so that in the future there will be no more incidents like this. CATET!

Maybe he's still comfortable friends

Even though she actually likes you, maybe the girl still wants to get to know you and continue to be close to you as a friend. You know that friends are better than dating? If he does admit that he is still comfortable as a friend, then he will. It is your destiny to be just friends. Don't worry too much.

He wanted to show that he was valuable and worth fighting for

Yep, right. Any woman would want to be considered valuable and also worth fighting for. That's the reason why girls don't sell dearly to boys, but maybe women doesn't hurt their pride, so they want to get close to them first. As a guy you also have to show that he is valuable to you. So, well, you just got to approach him first.