Future Backrest

Once upon a time, there was a child who asked his mother, “Mother, my friend told me that her mother always left her own hand to be bitten by a mosquito until the mosquito was full so that she wouldn't bite my friend. Will you also do the same? "

The mother laughed and answered frankly, "No. But, Mother will chase every mosquito all night long so you don't have the chance to bite you or our family. "

Hearing that answer, the child smiled and resumed his playing activities. Not long after, the child turned back to his mother. Suddenly she remember something. "Then Mom, at that time I heard a story about a mother who was willing not to eat so that her children could eat their fill. How about mom? " The boy asked almost the same question.

This time the mother answered in a firmer voice, “I will work hard so that we can all eat until we are full. So, you don't have to be difficult to swallow because you see your mother is hungry. "

The child smiled again, and then hugged his mother lovingly. "Thanks Mom. I can always lean on Mother. "

While stroking her child's hair, the mother replied, "No, son! But I will teach you so that you can stand firm on your own feet, so that you don't fall down when you are no longer by your side. Because mom can't always be there for you. "

How many parents among us who often feel willing to sacrifice themselves for the sake of their baby? Are we not aware that such an attitude can dull a child's mental courage?

So, it is wise if all parents not only make themselves a leaning place for their children, but also make it unnecessary in the future.

It is wise for parents to form their children as independent individuals in the future when the parents themselves can no longer support their children in the world.